Hi Everyone. I am so excited to be launching this site! My intention is for you to have the mindset information you need to put Law of Attraction into action. I know it will support you in having all the success you desire!
If you are new to Law of Attraction, or even if you have been manifesting using these principles for years, it is a great idea to go over these steps. If they resonate with you as written, if not I would love to work with you to rewrite these principles. in a way that works for you.
Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step.
– Dr Martin Luther King Jr
From there, we will be talking about a variety of topics including how to move through resistance to achieving the success you desire, how to clarity your desires so that you and can manifest them more quickly and how to make your thoughts become things.
1. Know what you desire.
Whatever you de sire in life business is absolutely possible, and you can manifest it. You must do your part, though and know that this is true. That being said, you need to know what you want. So many of us l don’t know what we truly desire . We might say ‘I’d like a new car, a new house, more money’ there is always more, a deeper desire.
A better way to desire something is to be specific:
I would love to be generating $5,000 or more per month and have plenty of time for family and friends. I see myself being of service to my customers and doing what I love. I go to bed each night knowing that I made a difference in someone’s life. It is important to go deeper than the new car or the dream vacation. You must know your reason why.
As above, a client of mine wanted to manifest $5,000 a month in a new business working from home. I asked her to describe in detail what this income and life style would really bring to her. How would it really benefit her? How would it make her happy and enhance her reality? What goal was she really trying to achieve? It was and always is more than the income.
2. Knowing that it will come.
Whatever the mind can conceive it can achieve. – W. Clement Stone
Knowing that will come, or believing, is the real key to manifesting your ideal business and your ideal life. It is important to know that what you believe will happen will, will. Some speak about wanting their new business and all of the benefits of it and may even take some actions such as narrowing a niche and starting a website. They wonder, though, why the business is not getting off the ground and getting increasingly frustrated.
The definition for Law of Attraction, it’s quite simple, it states:
I attract to my life whatever I give my attention, energy or focus to, whether wanted or unwanted. – Michael Losier
If you are thinking more about why you are not getting the results you desire or have fears around jumping into your new venture then you are giving your attention, energy and focus to this. These are called your limiting beliefs and the great news is there are many ways to move through them and get your desire results!
You may tell me that you just can’t see how this all works.
How can implementing some mindset “tricks” give you your ideal life and business? Let’s take it from a new life and a business down to a parking space. If you were able to manifest a parking space close to the mall entrance a few times would that increase your confidence that this all works? So, in the beginning, when you’re first working with the idea of your thoughts, and shifting your beliefs and patterns, it’s great to start with something that has not emotional charge for you so that can really get what it means.
Staring with something that has no emotional charge makes it fun and allows you to get into the flow.
Try this. Before leaving home or even on the way or when you reach your destination, imagine the perfect parking space. No stress, just imagine. Consciously choose to have your perfect parking space. Then, expect that it will be there waiting for you when you arrive. Know that you will be guided to the perfect aisle. Visualize yourself pulling up to the place where you choose to park and easily, joyfully, effortlessly pulling into your space.
Know, with great confidence, that your inner guidance will tell you where to go.
We started this case study with Step 1. As we were talking I learned that my client has been in a job that she loved for many years. She went right back to work after each of her 2 children were born. Now, as they are entering school, she really wants to be home so that she can be involved in their activities. She also wants to focus on her own health and fitness as well as have time with her husband and with other family members and friends. Does this sound familiar? The reasons why you want to start your own business may be different, however the process of discovering why you want your own business is the same. This was not the end of the exploration with my client. As I asked why she wanted each of the items above and we dove deeper, she said that she wants to look back at her like and know that she made a different to many more than her employer.
Knowing that she was now on that path gave her a tremendous amount of peace. That was her deeper “why”. To begin to manifest, I told her, you desire something very strongly. You desire it with your heart… you believe it can be yours … and then you let go, and let it come. Over time you can do this with ease. It is a great idea to start with parking spaces and other things to which you are not emotionally attached. This is a HUGE confidence builder and with that confidence you will soon be 100% confident that your true desire will come.
Steve is a world famous hypnotherapist and Brad has been working to support thousands of people to improve their self-confidence using Emotional Freedom Technique. Their program Confidence Beyond Belief was life changing for me as I know it will be for you.
Step 3 Visualization and Inspired Action.
We create our own reality every moment, whether we are aware of it or not and whether our reality is primarily positive or primarily negative. Its all start from within each of us. Visualization is the process of imagining the experience deep in mind, as if, it is in reality. It involves the five senses. Visualization is the same as Attraction. With every visualization, whether conscious or unconscious, we are actually attracting. Merely visualization what you want is not enough,
You have to take inspired actions to manifest your desires.To accomplish great things we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe. – Anatole France
Being able to visualize something in exact detail can do wonders for your powers of manifestation.
I asked my client to find a place to relax and have slowly entered a focused meditative state, find one vivid image that represents your her in her ultra successful business. She said that relaxing was difficult and I suggested that she pick up a CD of meditation music or listen to a number of meditation tracks on YouTube and find one that she likes. Back to her vivid image…. At first she could not think about what to envision. I suggested that it might be shaking hands and feeling appreciation from a brand new client who will generate $1,500 a month from a business whose values are in alignment with her own. I also suggested that her image be her bank statement after just 3 months in business or her coming home from work feeling satisfied in every way.
I suggested that she experiment with multiple images and then focus on one that really speaks to the feelings of pride, happiness and accomplishment that she associates with her business and work/life balance. This will be the image that she will use in future visualizations. I told her that it would be very useful to have set times to do her visualization, possibly in the morning, evening and mid-day or what ever her schedule allows. I told her that this process, even for a brief few minutes, will allow her to carry your positive images, emotions and beliefs into the day.
Inspired Action is essential to the Law of Attraction.
Too many people forget this step. They feel inspired, but do not act on their positive, divine inspirations. They wait for things to happen to them, and that’s exactly what ends up happening, they end up waiting and get paralyzed by fear. They wait…and wait. have you heard this story?
A very religious man was once caught in rising floodwaters. He climbed onto the roof of his house and trusted God to rescue him. A neighbor came by in a canoe and said, “The waters will soon be above your house. Hop in and we’ll paddle to safety.” “No thanks” replied the religious man. “I’ve prayed to God and I’m sure he will save me” A short time later the police came by in a boat. “The waters will soon be above your house. Hop in and we’ll take you to safety.” “No thanks” replied the religious man. “I’ve prayed to God and I’m sure he will save me” A little time later a rescue services helicopter hovered overhead, let down a rope ladder and said. “The waters will soon be above your house. Climb the ladder and we’ll fly you to safety.” “No thanks” replied the religious man. “I’ve prayed to God and I’m sure he will save me” All this time the floodwaters continued to rise, until soon they reached above the roof and the religious man drowned. When he arrived at heaven he demanded an audience with God. Ushered into God’s throne room he said, “Lord, why am I here in heaven? I prayed for you to save me, I trusted you to save me from that flood.” “Yes you did my child” replied the Lord. “And I sent you a canoe, a boat and a helicopter. But you never got in.”
I told her that you take action the universe joins in with us to co-create the intentions we want.
It must be inspired action! This action is not driven by the ego. She asked what the difference is? I told her that action lead by ego comes solely from your mind or head, inspired action comes from your heart and from the Divine. I told her that I know I have been given an Inspired Action when my hands feel tingling. I know this may sound strange, but I have tested it enough to know that it is true. I told her that a great way to learn her physical sensation for an Inspired Action is to ask what action to take on things that don’t really have an emotional charge. Ask “what is the best way to drive home?”. What does your gut and how does your body feel? Which outfit should I purchase for the meeting next week? I told her that before long she would be able to identify an action coming from her mind (ego) versus her heart (inspired action). When you act immediately on the inspiration given to you, you show the universe that you appreciate what you are given and in return you are given more. So what inspiration will you act on today?
One of the best ways to focus your mind with visions of the business you desire is to use guided meditations which are designed to take you on a journey in your mind to help manifest the specific desire you want in your life. It is very important to include the qualities of life that you want in your business life. For example, what is the good of manifesting the money you desire if you are working 60 hours a week with no chance to enjoy it and it being detrimental to your health?
If we want something to happen in our lives, we first think of it in the mind.
For example, if you want a business that generates $10,000 a month and allows you to be at home with your family in the evenings and on weekends, you picture yourself serving your customers with great joy, attracting your “dream team” and having dinner with your family and sharing the highlights of your day while having plenty of time and energy to interact with your family. You see it, feel the emotion of having a life filled with work/life balance, and get excited about owning the business. It’s the same for all your desires, you first have to picture it in your mind before it can come to you.
If you are new to visualizing or if you have been doing it for years, I invite you to listen to Bob Proctor’s Visualize Your Abundant Future. It was life changing for me as I know it will be for you. I have learned so much from Bob and recommend that you check out this free video series. After seeing the free video series you will be offered a paid program. I have taken this and highly recommend it. If that does not work for you I still highly recommend that you view and view again the free series.
4. Inner Dialogue (self-talk)
What you put our attention, energy and focus on will expand and have an effect on your actions, emotions and ability to take Inspired Actions for that day. Consciously focusing your thoughts what you desire in life, without being attached to it, will change the actions you take, and your emotions. Also when you focus your thoughts on your deepest desires, your unconscious mind automatically helps you to look our for opportunities to make your desire real.
Either you must control your thoughts or the outside forces will control them and be warned that the outside forces usually consist of fears, worries and doubts.” ― Maddy Malhotra
It is important to know that if your thoughts are negative and predominantly about what you don’t want, that is what will manifest.
After about 3 weeks of doing regular visualization and taking Inspired Action my client began to see some success! She got one small client worth $150 a month from an ad she had placed and another worth $200 a month from a referral. Then 2 weeks of not much new activity! As she reflected on this she realized that while she was grateful, she was also feeling as though what had happened was too good to be true and it wouldn’t last. In other words she was having lots of negative self-talk. Most all of us have negative self talk, sometimes called “monkey mind”. How do we minimize this? I advised my client to use positive affirmations as a great way to introduce new thoughts into your mind. I told her that one positive thought can lead to a deluge of more positive thoughts, and before you know it you will be thinking positive thoughts much of the time. Your energy will change and you will being attracting your desires. One way to do this is to record a script of your future. Here are some guidelines. This can easily be done with your Smartphone.
- The tense that you use (present / future) does not matter. If you immediately feel resistance when you thing about this since it doesn’t seem realistic, use the phrase “I am in the process of…”. “I am in the process of creating a business that allows me to work 60 hours a month and generates $5,000 a month or more. I work with many small businesses they all have values similar to mine.” The phrase “I am in the process of…” makes it believable since it is true!
- Create realistic stories, but also include stretch goals! You may believe that the $5,000 a month working 60 hours is doable. Does $6,000 working 70 hours seem at all possible? Add it!
- Do not make wishes here. Words like, “I would like to” or “I should” should not be in there.
- All phrases should be positive! There is no room for negativity here,
- Your audios can be any length and you can have as many as you want.
If you can’t see yourself doing this, consider what many do.For me and many of my friends and students listening to positive, empowering mp3s has been an important key to maintaining those positive thoughts. One of the ones I use most frequently and highly recommend is Zen Meditations. I strongly recommend you check this out. Click here for more information. I love Joe Vitale’s work. My favorite book is The Attractor Factor, available from Amazon and Barnes and Noble. This is a low cost way to get more information. If you are looking to really accelerate your learning and business success I recommend Awakened Millionaire Academy.
As I have said before, If you are new to positive thinking or if you have been doing it for years, I invite you to listen to Bob Proctor’s Visualize Your Abundant Future. It was life changing for me as I know it will be for you. I have learned so much from Bob and recommend that you check out this free video series. After seeing the free video series you will be offered a paid program. I have taken this and highly recommend it. If that does not work for you I still highly recommend that you view and view again the free series. That in itself will be life changing!
5. Better Questions Lead to Better Answers
Do you commonly ask yourself questions such as:
- What if other people have the power to keep me from getting what I want (won’t give me credit, space, etc.)?
- What if my life, relationship, health is getting worse?
- What if I fail?
- What if I bomb the presentation?
- What if no one buys my product/service/book/etc.?
- What if they don’t like me?
- What if everything I think other people are thinking about me is true?
- As you look at each question individually it might seem relatively insignificant, but if you look at them all together and thing about your own self-talk, most likely you are realizing the negative “energy” going into you mind and body.
Better, more empowering questions that will change your life are those such as:
- What if my business is hugely successful?
- What if other people have no power to keep me from getting what I want?
- What if I’m more powerful than I’ve ever thought?
- What if life is getting better and better?
- What if I succeed?
- What if I my presentation is a huge success?
- What if tons of people buy my product/service/book/etc., and love it?
- What if vendors want to work with me?
- What if I live a long and joy filled life, full of friends and family and community?
- What if all the compliments I get are actually true?
When you ask yourself a question, your unconscious mind will automatically search for the answer. If you ask “What if my business is a huge failure, your unconscious mind will find lots of answers to tell you why you are a failure. Whereas, if you ask the question ‘How can I improve to make myself more successful’, your unconscious mind will start to help you find the answer and doors will open to support your success! Asking yourself the right questions is essential. If you find yourself asking negative questions, turn them around to make it more outcome focused and positive.
Yesterday we talked about self-talk. My client was meditating and visualizing regularly and was making progress! When she thought about leaving her job, though, terror took over! I suggested that she ask herself some questions.
Who Are Your Committed to Being In the World?
When you think about answering this question, think about the values and beliefs that your life is founded on and your business will be founded on.
What Are You Committed to?
What is the experience you, your customers and your family will have as a result of your business? This is the outcome you are after for yourself, your family and your customers. This should include things like delivering the best possible product on or before schedule and being home for dinner 4 nights a week. It should also include thinks like respectful boundaries and time for fitness. When you are thinking about what you are committed to also be sure to consider the actions needed to meet those commitments. Words and actions must align. Don’t commit to seeing each client for lunch once each month when there are 20-25 work days in the month and you have 40 clients.
What Can People Count on You For?
This brand, what you stand for. What is it that your customers love about you? What do they know they can get from you that no other company can provide? What do you do that brings them satisfaction, pride and joy? One great thing about the Law of Attraction and how it applies to business is that it’s always at work. If you follow the principles I’ve outlined here, you’ll have a lot more fun creating the business of your dreams.
It is important to know that if your questions are negative and predominantly about what you don’t want, that is what will manifest.
While most of us ask ourselves negative questions once in a while, those who ask these pretty consistently may have negative self-esteem. I had this much of my life and on occasion it still creeps in. When I first realized this many years ago I turned to the expertise of Dr. Joe Rubino. Check out Joe’s free audio here.
This is often the most often overlooked step in making the Law of Attraction work for you. If you’ve identified your desire, and given it a lot of attention, but doubt that it will manifest, you end up sabotaging the entire process. It’s not enough just to identify and really want your desire. You must also remove any doubt that you will attract it.
This doubt-removing process is called Allowing.
For many this allowing seems impossible. No matter how much they want their dreams and goals to come true and no matter how many positive, uplifting words they speak, their deepest, most unconscious beliefs take hold.
What you do if this is you? That is where the releasing techniques come in. Here is a brief description of the ones I have had the most success with personally and with clients:
The Sedona Method
The Sedona Method is a unique, simple, powerful, easy-to-learn and duplicate technique that shows you how to uncover your natural ability to let go of any painful or unwanted feeling in the moment. The Sedona Method consists of a series of questions you ask yourself that lead your awareness to what you are feeling in the moment and gently guide you into the experience of letting go. Watch this short, 4-minute video… http://www.sedona.com/What-Is-The-Sedona-Method.asp
Emotional Freedom Technique
What is EFT or Tapping?
EFT stands for Emotional Freedom Techniques (sometimes called Tapping) and, in essence, it is an emotional version of acupuncture, except we don’t use needles. Instead, we stimulate certain meridian points on the body by tapping on them with our fingertips. This has shown repeatedly to reduce the conventional therapy process from months or years down to minutes, hours or a few sessions
This innovative Tapping tool has proven useful in clinical settings for just about any emotional, physical or performance issue you can name. That’s a bold statement, I know but check out our free videos as well as thousands of articles written by therapists, physicians and clients on our EFT Tapping website. There you will find EFT and Tapping success stories on everything from fears to trauma … anger to depression … bee stings to multiple sclerosis … back pain to vision issues … baseball to gymnastics … singing to golf. Please get the idea that this one innovative tool is so universal that one of our mottos is “Try Tapping on Everything.”. EFT was featured on Dr. Oz.
Percussive Suggestion Technique (PSTEC) has only recently been developed and is a unique and cutting-edge new therapy designed to neutralize any disturbing feelings in a very powerful way. PSTEC quickly decreases and often eliminates anxiety and feelings of depression and neutralizes disturbing memories. Although the painful memory will not actually be forgotten, the intensity level of the negative emotion associated with it will be significantly diminished and more often, eliminated. Learn more.
Just how quick the Law of Attraction manifests your desire in your life is in direct proportion to how much you allow. So how do you know you are allowing?
You can tell by how you feel. When you remove any resistance to manifesting your desire, you’ll feel a sense of relief.
Manifestations of your desire begins to appear in your life. When you begin to see this evidence coming into your life, you know that you are allowing.
Once you have set your desire in motion and you truly believe it is coming, it’s important to let go of your desire. By that I move on to other projects and thoughts. Resist the impulse to think about it all of the time.
Your desire is like any small creature; hold on too tight and you will kill it, hold on to it lightly and it can breath and forever be free to enjoy life.
Know that what you desire is coming to you, and give gratitude for it often.
Gratitude is an attitude that hooks us up to our source of supply. And the more grateful you are, the closer you become to your maker, to the architect of the universe, to the spiritual core of your being. It’s a phenomenal lesson. – Bob Proctor
In order for the Law of Attraction to attract your desire you must be grateful for your current state. Whatever your current situation is, be grateful for that. Keep a positive outlook. There are people who are far less fortunate then you are and they stay positive. The Universe knows exactly the next step you need to take to in order to propel you toward your desire. When we are negative, however, we don’t see the next step and we are unable to take Inspired Action.
Just accept your present condition with gratitude. This has come easily for me at certain periods in my life and not so easily in others. Having a daily meditation practice is extremely helpful and can be life changing!
Here are a couple of my favorites:
You see, the universe was the one who gave you your present condition in the first place based on your previous thoughts, and resenting that is like telling the universe you are not grateful to it.
Bless your condition every morning when you wake up and every night before your go to sleep.
Being grateful with your present condition is like starting over on a clean plate. Like in a bad marriage, you start over by forgiving what you had done in the past and forgiving each other, and promising to forget what happened before and start something new. Well, this works in the same way. Forget the past, appreciate your present condition and work on changing for the better. Being grateful takes no more energy than feeling ungrateful. So why feel ungrateful? You get a far better result, because the universe is going to give you whatever your desires are and life will be wonderful.
Once you accept your present condition and each time you go into meditation, you are taking yourself to a higher plane or dimension.
Each time you feel grateful and tell the universe that, you are on your way to becoming a fourth dimensional person. When this happens, you can attract what you desire quickly and elegantly. The sooner the universe knows that you want to change, the sooner that your requests will manifest
People who are already successful using the power of law of attraction, are seldom negative, temperamental or resentful. In fact they are the complete opposite and always want to share their successes and guide you through the same path. They are not selfish or arrogant because they know the law resent that in them. You can see them on television today. These successful people promote the value of the law of attraction to help people all around d the world because they know that by helping and sharing, they also get abundance. What a wonderful way to live when all you do is being grateful and help people. Should not everyone be like this? If everyone knows this law and practices it, we can eliminate war, hunger and poverty, and this world will be a great place to live, much like what is was intended to be when it was first created.